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Friday, 23 November 2012

The kindness of strangers

Thursday, 22/11/2012 – 161 A.D.

I woke up this morning with no clue as to what day it was. Monday, Wednesday, weekend – absolutely no idea! I also did not wake up alone. Whoa, now! Don’t be getting excited. The person I speak of was my own brother and he was sleeping in the bed next to mine. Unfortunately the heater in his room was not working – didn’t have the correct remote control for it, and despite the manageress bringing up many, many remotes to try out, none of them worked. So she promised to get the handyman to fix it the next day, but it meant that Tim and I would have to wait a little longer before we got to sleep in our private rooms.

It was Thursday, I established that shortly after getting up. We needed to do one thing today – buy our train ticket from Beijing to Xi`an, and we wanted to do two things – visit the Mausoleum of Chairman Mao and go to The Forbidden City. Give that Mao’s tomb closed at 12, we had to get our skates on to get down to Tiananmen Square where the building is right in the centre. Anyone who read this blog when I was in Hanoi will know that in a slightly morbid way I was disappointed not to get to see the body of Ho Chi Minh lying in state. Therefore I might actually get to break my duck of seeing the preserved corpse of a revolutionary leader. The square was bitingly cold today, with a chill wind coming in from the north. With 30 minutes to spare, we arrived at the end of the line, but were sent away by a soldier pointing to our rucksacks. We knew they had to be stored somewhere, but didn’t know the place would be a large building on one side of the square. As I’ve already mentioned, Tiananmen is the largest open air square in the world, so you don’t just get from one side to the other in a click of your fingers. By the time we reached the building we realised we’d blown our chance for today and would have to come back some other time. Still not got to see a revolutionary cadaver!


 We caught the subway to Beijing Central train station, where we’d arrived the other day from Shanghai. The English-speaking ticket desk was clearly marked and, after holding the queue jumpers at bay by spreading my frame out to the sides, we were able to book our tickets. Only down side (of sorts) was that there were no hard sleepers available, so we’re back to soft sleepers. That means more comfort, but also more money. Hey ho - The Road dishes out what The Road dishes out. 

The afternoon dished out a trip to the Forbidden City, just as planned. It was only a short walk past Tiananmen Square and cost 45 yuan to enter (£4.50 – I love it when currency conversions are a piece of cake to perform!) The skies above were still grey, and though the weather remained dry, it seemed to get even colder with that wind chill coming in. However, some among us had a rather alternative method for dealing with such elemental exposure….


So, the Forbidden City…what is it? Or what was it? Well it was the home of the Chinese emperors for nearly 500 years, right up until the last emperor, Puyi. Its use spanned the Ming and the Qing dynasties. And not just the emperors lived here, their families and concubines hung out as well. There were also buildings for the ceremonial and political functions of the Chinese government. All in all, it was a pretty important place; still is a pretty important place.




All in all, it was a very grand spectacle, only marred by the chill. At one point I even ducked into the gift shop to warm up, much to the chagrin of Spiderman Tim. It was easy to imagine the place filled with hundreds of guards, courtiers and various important people running about performing their duties. We could not go inside most of the main rooms that the emperor used, merely peep in from behind a cordon. Maybe I was a bit spoilt by the gleaming golden palaces and statues of the Bhuddist countries we visited, but I found the thrones and furnishings here a little drab. Stick a bit of neon in there, maybe a glitterball or two and they’ll look fit for a king…or an emperor.    





Anyone ever had chapped lips before? I haven’t. But I have them now. Seemed to come on around Shanghai, i.e. once things got a little cooler after leaving Hong Kong. It’s only on the tip of my top lip, and at first I thought it was a reaction to the spicy food and the Tsingtao beer. But no, it’s dee cold weather dat’s done it. Isn’t it strange how you might suffer from a particular ailment in one place, but go to another country in winter and something new (yet reasonably harmless) comes along. And how to combat this? Less Tsingtao – I’ve already switched to rice wine.

Upon returning home in the afternoon I logged onto the computer to see that I had an email message from Haven – that’s her English name, whereas her Chinese name is Jing Wong (‘Jing’ being the forename). Her mum calls her “Jing-Jing”, but I’ll stick to Haven. You may remember that Haven is a young lass who we met on the train and who our scarred minds were slightly suspicious of, even though on the surface there was absolutely no reason to doubt her friendliness. So, she’d sent an email saying that she was free this evening if we fancied going for a drink. This is my fault because she said she’d never been to a bar before, which made me offer to introduce her to the scene, even though I’ve no idea what the bar scene is like in Beijing. We ummed and ahhhed about whether we should go, but ultimately decided that it can be a drag staying in the hotel every single night and we owed it to ourselves to get out there and do something once the sun went down. So, after forgetting about my chapped lips and accidentally ordering some spicy beef in the hotel restaurant (some of which I tried to give to the resident cat), we hit the metro yet again.

[Tiananmen Square by night.]

The traditional bar area of Beijing is called Chaoyang  District, though there are a few more that have developed in recent times. Within Chaoyang is a place called Sanlitun Bar Street, famous for containing the watering holes that sozzled expats attend, where loud music is the norm and you really should ask how much a drink costs before you buy one. In the absence of anywhere else to go, we decided to head there. After all, Haven supposedly wanted an authentic bar experience – if we got it right (or wrong) tonight then we could potentially put her off for life! Poor girl, she had the weight of the Chinese nation on her shoulders, hoping to get back into our good books and no longer be treated with suspicion. Would she rise to the challenge?

We met her at Dongsishitiao station (try pronouncing that one when you’ve got a cold!) and headed towards Sanlitun. Haven was full of energy and enthusiasm, just as she had been on the train. One slight moment of uncertainty arose when we had to ask her to ask the railway staff what time the last train was – shouldn’t this be common, pre-loaded knowledge when having a night out? There was always the option to get a taxi, but we’d see how it went. Haven, however, seemed to have other ideas, suggesting that if she did miss the last train then she could get a taxi with us back to our hotel and get a room there. Okaaaaaay…why does that sound just a little bit dodgy to us? We’ll give it some time and see how it sounds after a beer.

Sanlitun was more of a walk than we thought, and I was worried that the cold would drive us into the first place we came to, no matter how iffy it was. It turned out that the closest place we came to was only selling beers at 12 for the equivalent of a tenner. “Yes, I agree, mate, that is a great price. But what if we don’t actually want to drink 12 beers?” We moved on. The place we ended up at was dark and dingy, and this is the only photo that I could get without embarrassing myself by putting the flash on…



…but it wasn’t all that bad. There was a warm, homeliness to it, and the music wasn’t too loud, which was an important fact given that Haven’s English is good, but not that good. And so, after offering her the chance to have a “girly drink”, she opted for a beer and I got a round in.  Then we spent the next hour having some pretty good conversations, despite the language limitations. Unfortunately, although she claimed to like her beer, she drank maybe three millilitres-worth, so the Grayboys had to help her finish it when the music was turned up at 22:00 and it became too loud to talk. Initially we went out to find somewhere else, but upon checking her watch, Haven realised that if she was going to return to the university campus where her former classmate lived, she’d have to head for the metro at that exact moment. Or else she could come to our hotel and get a room there. I looked at Tim, he looked at me, we exchanged telepathic messages and agreed it was best for her to go back to her classmate’s. Although she had been perfectly pleasant company and had done nothing whatsoever to make us think she was on the scam, the thought of someone we didn’t know too well in close proximity to our valuables tipped the scales. We offered to walk her back to the metro, which she was cool with. Not much of a night out, I know, but at least we had fun! Oh and she said I looked like a teacher in my new coat...well, I was aiming for the image of cool, college professor, so I'll take her words as a compliment!


Upon entering the metro, it was about 22:40, the last train leaving at 22:57. Plenty of time? Not so. Haven put in a call to classmate and realised just how many stops she would have to change at to get back, and classmate seemed to suggest that she would not make it in time. So, again she suggested coming back to our hotel for a room! To be fair, the metro didn’t stay open late, so it was perfectly plausible that she might get stuck. Better to at least know she’s got a room somewhere than to be wandering a city she’s a stranger in and looking for a hotel. Finally we said okay, with the proviso that the hotel might not have any beds available, though secretly we knew they would, given that it’s out of season and we hear hardly any other guests in the evenings. But there was a further twist to this tale, because as our bar conversations had gone on we'd mentioned how the hotel had given us a room each, both of which contain two beds. Haven suggested having one of those beds, though she was not specific. Now we had the thought of someone we didn’t really know being in the same room as our valuables! But we had a trick up our sleeve – most hotels do not allow visitors in guests’ rooms after hours, so that was that, wasn't it?

Not so. Upon arriving at the hotel, Haven spoke to the receptionist in Chinese; the conversation lasted some time, but I get the feeling that most Asian languages often use lots of words to say very little. Tim and I watched with interest as she handed over some money, then turned to us excitedly and said, “They are very nice, they say I can stay in your room with you guys!” The receptionist added that because we already had a family room, it was okay for another person to share. Umm, alright then! On our way through the courtyard, I found out that Haven had paid 80 yuan to share our room, whereas a room on her own would be 120, so I guess it made financial sense. But who the heck would want to share a room with a couple of Englishmen like us - filthy in body, mind and clothes after over five months on The Road?

[Along with many of life's complexities, Tim and Haven discuss the meaning of the words, "trust", "foolishness" and "freezing bloody bathroom with a leaky sink".]

With our new roommate (with zero luggage) settled-in, I cracked open a nightcap beer and we all talked a little more. We had a laugh, it’s fair to say. And at one point Haven asked me why I liked beer. I replied, “Why do you like swimming?” “Because it makes me feel good.” I smiled, “There’s your answer!” Why can’t every debate be that simple? Thanks to my grandma for that one – her response to me as a little boy asking why she smoked was to ask me why I liked chocolate. I didn’t quite get it at first, but I figured it out later, i.e. when I was on a packet Marlboros a day in my early 20s!

At a little after midnight, we all realised how tired we were and offered Haven food and water, both of which she refused, as well as reading material, the use of the telly, etc. But she was ready for sleeping after spending the previous night on her classmate's floor. So, feeling quite confident that everything would be okay, and with only a small amount of suspicion in our minds, Tim and I said goodnight and went into the next room. Then we locked away all of our valuables and prised the bin against the door. You can’t be too careful in our world!

So, that's two night's running in which I haven't had a room to myself!

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